Hey Rene,
So I can help a little with your first question - as I was (up until about a year ago) one of the only two members of our rentals team, as one of the 'bullet points' in my job description here!
Our organization is a little different because we are combination zoo, aquarium, and museum so our rental policies have to cover a wide variety of what is and is not allowed, available or acceptable depending on the request. But we do host the normal weddings, anniversaries, parties, company holiday events and more. Typically those are hosted in our aquarium space, some in our zoo, and some in our museum spaces. Our rental contracts that we make each client sign (and was vetted by lawyers on our board) is very explicate in what is and is not allowed in the space. We do not allow anything to be affixed to walls or exhibits in any way, we do not allow balloons (open air aquarium exhibits), we do not allow smoke machines, and we do not allow things like sand, plastic confetti, or glitter - and that is just the basics. We are also very specific in terms of music as we have to be careful on noise level that may affect the animals. And we only allow beer, wine or champagne, absolutely no other type of alcohol.
In my experience, guests who choose places like our facility or other museum type settings do so with a very specific reason in mind in regards to what you offer, and are usually very respectful of the rules that have to be put in place for the safety and integrity of the institution. Additionally, we only allow after hours events - outside of our own yearly fundraiser, we do not close early for rental clients, and we do not start setting up in public spaces before 4:30 pm (we close at 5 pm daily).
We have hosted political events in the past, and we have not received much pushback as we are strictly 'the venue' for any rental clients. We do not advertise for them, we do not offer our logo for their use in advertising their event, etc. We have also been careful to make sure all those involved are aware that our rental spaces are available upon request, so anyone involved in any political race has the opportunity to host their event on site - and there are no discounts offered to remain fair and impartial. In my experience working in our rentals department, if your institution continues to be seen strictly as 'the venue', you can continue to remain apolitical or unbiased in your community (if that's what your goal is).
I hope that helps at least with your first question!
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Jessica Gouge
Education Events and Collections Manager
Greensboro Science Center
Greensboro NC
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