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  • 1.  Loneliness in the Work Place

    Posted 02-13-2025 09:06 AM
    Edited by Marilyn Moore 02-13-2025 09:15 AM

    Hello! I hope everyone is doing well. I was wondering if I could get some advice from the community. I started my current position in June of last year, where I came from a museum where I was working with 4 other coworkers daily (either directly or we were in the same vicinity of each other working on our projects). In my new position, the museum staff is just me and my boss. My boss is the head of a larger department and I only see her when we meet every 10-12 weeks. Most of my career in the museum position had me working with/around other staff and patrons so working completely alone is difficult. The museum is closed because we are working on moving it to a new location, and the current building is not safe for visitors to walk through. 

    I was wondering if I could get advice on how to combat the loneliness and slight depression of working alone. I've tried having audiobooks on or music playing but those have started to be a less effective aid. I love my job and the work that I'm doing helping to breathe life into a museum that was previously not well-known on my campus but I'm worried that this loneliness will affect my productivity negatively. 

    Thank you ahead of time for your advice. I hope y'all have a great day. God bless!



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    Marilyn Moore
    Curator
    Thomasville NC
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  • 2.  RE: Loneliness in the Work Place

    Posted 02-13-2025 10:53 AM

    Marilyn, I work at home as an independent museum professional. An anti-lonliness tool I use is "parallel working"on Zoom with other people who also work alone. Form your own group!

    Laurie



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    Laurie Phillips
    MuseumSage.com
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  • 3.  RE: Loneliness in the Work Place

    Posted 02-13-2025 11:01 AM

    Thank you for your advice!



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    Marilyn Moore
    Curator
    Thomasville NC
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  • 4.  RE: Loneliness in the Work Place

    Posted 02-14-2025 08:37 AM
    Edited by Margaret Koch 02-14-2025 08:37 AM

    Marilyn, I am sure many of us completely understand. One technique I used was to connect with regional museum associations; many have talk boards where issues that are being worked on are discussed and ideas shared. Also, use LinkedIn to post updates on what you're working on, the comments of support from colleagues are really a morale booster. You might also ask your boss if you could meet on a monthly basis, as the work of opening a new space would benefit from more of her input (possible?) And, during the day when you feel the most alone, get up stretch, take a walk, or email a colleague; I'm betting you have a support network around you that would love to raise your spirits up. 



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    Margaret Koch
    Director
    Bullock Texas State History Museum
    Austin TX
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  • 5.  RE: Loneliness in the Work Place

    Posted 02-14-2025 09:37 AM
    Hi, Marilyn - sounds difficult! Luckily for me, I've always enjoyed working alone.  However, if you'd like people around you, have you considered volunteers and/or interns?  SOunds like you're on a college campus.  This could be a fabulous opportunity to build a cadre of recruits and trainees who might be influenced by you to pursue careers in museum work, to say nothing of keeping you busy guiding their work.

    In addition, when the museum re-opens, the students and volunteers who are still there (some may graduate!) will form a corps of interpreters for your visitors.  Good Luck  Vivian 





  • 6.  RE: Loneliness in the Work Place

    Posted 02-14-2025 12:49 PM

    Hi Marilyn,

    I found myself in a very similar situation when I took my current job - though I work for a relatively big museum, I'm contracted out to a company archive. I don't really work with anyone at the museum or at the company, other than my boss. As folks have suggested, using message boards and affinity groups in professional organizations like AAM really helps. I would also recommend, if you can find the time in your schedule, finding a professional committee to volunteer for. I've found it is really helpful for my morale to work with a team on a project, even one outside of my regular work. I've met amazing colleagues from around the country and I'm proud of the work we have done together. (And it doesn't hurt one's resume/CV either.) 

    -Kristin



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    Kristin Morris
    Cisco Archivist
    Computer History Museum
    Mountain View CA
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  • 7.  RE: Loneliness in the Work Place

    Posted 02-17-2025 05:18 PM

    Hi Marilyn - You're welcome to join us in the MaP Community. It's free to join the community and we host free Listening Circles that connect museum professionals from time to time through live sessions. Community.museumprogress.com. 

    Wishing you well,



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    Kyle Bowen
    Principal, Museums as Progress
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  • 8.  RE: Loneliness in the Work Place

    Posted 02-18-2025 12:41 PM
    Marilyn:

    You are not the only employee in a single museum staff job.  Others have been very successful, so reach out to those in like singe staff positions.

    In this light, see Solving Task Saturation for Museum Workers ~ Help for fully loaded camels working in a rain of straws blog https://solvetasksaturation.wordpress.com/ .
     
    Respectfully yours

    Paul C. Thistle





  • 9.  RE: Loneliness in the Work Place

    Posted 02-18-2025 10:38 AM

    Marilyn,

    Just a note to reiterate/ support some of what has been said. Some of my most important professional relationships are with people I met while serving on various committees/boards for professional associations. One of my best I haven't seen in person for at least 7 years. I met her through my work with a state museum association. Others I met through a Professional Network, although AAM has discontinued those. 

    https://www.ncmuseums.org/

    Take care,

    Linda



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    Linda Endersby
    Collections Manager, History Nebraska
    linda.endersby@nebraska.gov
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  • 10.  RE: Loneliness in the Work Place

    Posted 02-18-2025 12:46 PM

    Dear Marilyn

    I can understand. I have a friend who is the only employee of the museum she works for but does have interns and volunteers. I know she enjoys having the volunteer's and interns.

    Thanks,

    Rachel



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    Rachel Alschuler
    Museum Education/ Visitor Experience
    San Francisco CA
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  • 11.  RE: Loneliness in the Work Place

    Posted 02-24-2025 12:51 PM

    Hello everyone! I want to start off thanking y'all for your support and suggestions, they mean a lot to me. I will be looking into the links, suggestions, and advice that you have given.

    I've started working in the coffee shop at the front of my building on some days. I'm currently inventorying the artifacts in the museum in preparation for packing them for the move to the new location so I only work there when I'm going to be editing photos. My husband comes to lunch with me in the afternoons so getting stuff done in the morning is more productive for me, the afternoons tend to be worse.

    The museum is not in a position to use volunteers at the moment though there are volunteers that help out with other departments on campus. This is because the current museum is not physically able to have many people in it at once due to safety/health concerns. I'm hoping to have volunteers in the next year or so. 

    I feel guilty taking breaks to walk or stretch outside of my lunch break because I feel like that would cut into my work day. However, my husband has also started trying to get me to take small breaks throughout the day as well so I will try to start adding a small walk during the afternoon to see if it helps. 

    Thank you again for the advice y'all have given me! I hope everyone has a great day. God bless!



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    Marilyn Moore
    Curator
    Thomasville NC
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